Top 10 Relationship Myths

Has a relationship myth sabotage one more more of your relationships? I didn't realize how many I believed in for most of my life.

Recently I signed up to work with a relationship coach. She offered a quiz on Facebook to determine what relationship styles you have. Relationship styles you ask? Yeah, me too. The more she spoke in her follow up video, I realized I really needed to go through her course.

Our first week was focused on these myths. What have I bought into in the past that just isn't true? What have you maybe believed in that hasn't served you in your relationships?

Here is a list of the top ten:

1. There is one person for everyone.

2. Everyone has just one soulmate.

3. Compatibility is what decides if a couple will make it or not.

4. If you meet the right person, it will be easy. Things will just click. They will know you so well that they will be able to interpret your needs.

5. You should always feel a spark.

6. If its meant to be, it will just work out.

7. Relationships should be easy.

8. It would just be easier with someone else.

9. Different communication styles means the relationship is doomed.

10. My top personal myth: When we hit a wall/challenge-if I was with the right person it wouldn't be this hard.

Thoughts? How many have you bought into? How have they sabotage your relationships now or in the past?

The first step is awareness. When you know about them, you can take steps to change them.